Category: Advice

Need Advice? I’m here to help in anyway I can…. Ask me anything and I’ll tell you what I think…

  • Am I too young to feel like this or is it natural?

    The Question: Found on Answers.Yahoo.com

    Well I’m only 13 but I always have this really maternal instinct. I really wish I had a little brother or sister but my parents are too old to have kids and whenever I see a little baby I always want to hold it and play with it. I really want to have a kid but I know I’m so young but it’s a really bad yearning and I obviously wouldn’t but I really, really want to. I have dreams all the time about having babies and stuff and I just don’t know if this is natural or not. So what should I do?

    My response:

    Dear Teen,

    It’s natural to feel and have maternal instincts. You are obviously mature beyond your years. This is normal in a lot of girls. Feeling this way and acting on them are two different things though. You have never been around small children, and although you know you have a soft spot for them, being around them and having one on your own are two different things. Children take a lot of work, a lot of attention and a lot of money. Don’t be in a hurry to grow up, you are only 13, your time will come when you are much older and ready to take on such a huge responsibility. If you like children a lot, have you thought about volunteering in a hospital, a day care, or any other place that has children. They have the big brother/big sister programs, I am not sure how old you have to be to join, but maybe your parents can help you get involved in one of these programs. There are plenty of programs that you can get into that involve being with children (research what is in your area), and this way you can help children that don’t have the privileges other children have. Hope this helps.

    xo,
    kristin nicole

  • I have a problem with my boyfriend and his ex girlfriend..i need some real advice?

    I find questions about relationships everywhere, Answers.Yahoo.com, Help.com and more. I find these questions interesting, some I’ve been through myself, some I’ve given advice to friends about, if you have similar questions or know someone who needs advice please send them my way, and I will give them the up most honest opionion anyone can have.

    The Question:

    Me and his ex both know each other, and she used to have jealousy towards me and really didn’t like me at first. Now she’s OK with me, so I think. We don’t talk at all, but she still talks to my boyfriend. I told him I don’t have a problem with them talking as long as she respects our relationship. We’ve been together for almost two years, and a couple times in the past he told me that she said dirty, sexual things to him. I asked him why he still talks to her and why would she say stuff like that? And he says, oh I don’t know, she also got mad at him b/c she thought we broke up. So obviously she’s not respecting our relationship..but why would she think that we were broken up? I feel like he keeps telling her that we’re not really together just so he can stay talking to her. He never lets me see his phone, he never wants his ex to see us together, and it’s like he’s scared to stop talking to her. I don’t really think he’s cheating on me, but I think he’s lying to me about a few things, and it’s my fault for letting it happen as much as it has. He’s with me way too often to be cheating on me with her, and I have seen a couple of texts from her, just not all of them. Can I have some advice on what i should do and what your opinion is?

    My response:

    Dear real advice,

    First off let me ask why the ex girlfriend had to like you, and why there was a problem with you? Of course she didn’t like you, you were the new girlfriend in her EX boyfriends life, you are the one that shouldn’t have liked her and had the problem with her; NOT the other way around. Second, why is your boyfriend still friends with his Ex? He doesn’t want his Ex to see you two together? And the Ex thought you were broken up? Where did she get this information from, if not from him, if he isn’t cheating on you and there is nothing to hide, why is he hiding you from his Ex? These are the questions you need to ask yourself. If he respects you and knows how you feel about it then he shouldn’t be friends with her. I don’t care how the relationship ended, it ended for a reason and there is no reason to stay friends with an ex. Staying friends with an Ex only causes problems in the current relationship. If your boyfriend is being honest with you about the text messages that doesn’t necessarily mean that he’s not cheating on you, it doesn’t mean he is either, but why does he continue talking to her if he knows she is sending him these messages? The Ex Girlfriend is not going to respect you and that really isn’t something she needs to you, (she obviously doesn’t care by sending your boyfriend these text messages) you need talk to your boyfriend, have respect for yourself because right now your boyfriend isn’t having respect for you.; continuing to talk to an Ex knowing it bothers you and continuing to receive these text messages is wrong on all levels. Tell him how you feel and tell him that you do not want him talking to his Ex anymore, if he respects you and really loves you and wants your relationship to work, he will stop talking to his Ex girlfriend. If he doesn’t, then you need to re-evaluate your relationship and ask yourself if you really want to be in a relationship where your boyfriend doesn’t take into consideration what you feel?

    Hope this helps….

    xo,
    kristin nicole

  • So i have a problem with my boyfriend’s mom.

    I found this question on a site called Help.com and I found it interesting to give my advice.

    The story:

    My boyfriend and I have been together for three years and for the first time I got into a fight with his mom. My boyfriend and I were arguing. I was on my cell and he was on his mom’s cell. We got into a fight and were hanging up on each other. Then I went to call him back on her phone and she answered ******* me out and hung up on me. this happened about 3 weeks ago. his mom and i have not spoken to each other since. I go over to his parents house (he lives there) and she wont even be in the same room as me or say anything to me. When i call on the house phone she never answers she hands the phone to someone else to answer. I can no stand this anymore. I think she is being very childish for being a 40 year old mother. I don’t feel that I did anything wrong because I never said anything to her or ******* her out or hung up the phone on her. I also do not feel that I should apologize, or be the one to start a conversation with her. I am not saying that she needs to apologize but I think she needs to be the one to take me aside and settle this. I am so frustrated with this situation and it is tearing me and my boyfriends apart. I try and talk to him about it but he just gets mad because he does not want to deal with this problem because it is between his mom and me.

    My response:

    Dear not speaking,

    I know that the situation is between you and your boyfriends mother, but being the girlfriend, I don’t think it’s wrong of your boyfriend to interfere and talk to his mom. I think you should talk to your boyfriend and tell him that it hurts that his mom isn’t talking to you, (If he starts to get upset tell him you just want him to hear you out), I see no reason as to why he can’t just tell his mom to stop acting the way she is. Unfortunately , we think differently then men, and he may feel that he’s getting in between the two of you and he doesn’t want to choose sides. What they don’t understand is that there really isn’t a side to choose, you just don’t want his mom to be upset with you, and you just want to go back to the way things were. Your boyfriend should just ask her why she is not talking to you, and try to mend things, he shouldn’t want that awkwardness to interfere in his relationship. If he doesn’t want to get in the middle of it, he kind of already is because he was using his mom’s phone the day you were arguing and he didn’t have the audacity to at least step outside while talking to you, he was obviously having the argument with you in front of his mom. His mom must have heard something she didn’t like and took offense. I don’t agree with this tactic and I do think his mom is being childish for not talking to you, your fight with her son had nothing to do with her. However, if you don’t want to have this awkward silent talk between the two of you every time you call or go over then it seems you are going to have to be the bigger person here and break the ice. Go up to her and just tell her that you aren’t sure why she is upset with you but that you apologize for anything she might have taken offense to. (I know what you are thinking…why should you apologize for something you didn’t do)? Well if you want to just fix things we sometimes have to just be that bigger person, let the other person hear what they want to hear, even if we know we shouldn’t be the one apologizing. If you choose the keep ignoring her route, things may blow over and she may soon come to her senses and just start talking to you again, but do you really want to just keep waiting and feel uncomfortable every time you are at your boyfriends house? Be the bigger person in this situation and just confront her, if you don’t want to apologize just straight out ask her what is bothering her, and explain to her that you don’t like this awkwardness there is between the two of you. That should break the ice, and go from there.

    Good luck…

    xo,
    kristin nicole

  • I have a problem with my boyfriend…..

    I found this question goggling away online and trying to come up with something to blog about…I thought it was interesting because I know this has happened to many girls and I know it’s happened to me before too. Take a look…

    The Question:

    I have a problem with my boyfriend. He tells me that he is going to call me and then he doesn’t. In a text I told him ‘thanks for calling’ in a sarcastic way. I know he understood what I was trying to say he just ignored it and said I love you. He made me so mad and upset. I want to get back at him and show him how it feels when somebody says they’ll do something and don’t end up doing it. How do I get back at him without being as mean?

    My response:

    Dear sarcastic,

    I know it’s hard to understand this because we aren’t men, and we don’t think like them. When we say we will call you back, or that we’ll call you later, it’s more likely we do then we don’t. Unfortunately men don’t see this as a concern, they don’t comprehend that when they tell us they’ll call us back, we expect just that. We don’t expect a telephone marathon, we just expect for you to call us back, even if it’s just for 2 minutes. I have done the being ‘sarcastic’ bit before (especially in a text) problem with this is, they usually just ignore us, because they don’t see anything wrong with what they are doing. My advice, don’t try to get back at him, he just won’t understand what you are doing or he just won’t care. Men aren’t like us, and they don’t care about the little things. Trying to get back at him isn’t going to solve the problem of him not calling you back. Be straight forward with him, and to his face, not on the phone or through a text or email, straight to his face tell him that it truly bothers you when he says he’s going to call and he doesn’t. Tell him that you need for him to try if he wants things to work. I know it’s hard sometimes to confront and as a women we think of all the negative stuff the man might say, but just think positive and if he really cares or loves you, he’ll call you back next time.

    xo,
    kristin nicole

  • Valentine’s Plans & More…

    Valentine’s Day

    Another Valentine’s is here, yes a year as passed by and now we are getting close to the day we all celebrate our love for one another. What are your plans for Valentine weekend?

    My Plans

    This year my boyfriend and I decided to go to Orlando, we did this for our first Valentine’s trip together and we thought it would be fun to do again. The last time we did this it was freezing that weekend and it seems that this weekend will be pretty cold up there again. I’m looking forward to it, it beats being all sweaty, standing in lines at the Parks. Other then going up to Orlando we don’t really have anything planned, just take each day as it comes and plan from there. Sometimes not planning and just going with the flow is the best part.

    Romantic Ideas:

    Any romantic ideas? This year Valentines is on a Sunday and if you have to work the next day like me you can always celebrate your Valentine on Saturday night instead of Sunday. However, I know most people do have Monday off, and that works out perfectly for those celebrating Valentines on Sunday. You can do a picnic in the park, or a walk on the beach, the weather is going to be perfect this weekend if you live in Miami. If you don’t live in Miami and it’s cold, snuggle up by a fire place, have some drinks, with dessert and light some candles all around the room, I’m sure that will set the mood. Dinner is always the number one thing people do, you can either go out to dinner, or make dinner at the house. Valentines isn’t the only time we have to be romantic but for some reason that’s the day everyone usually goes all out. So if you have any ideas you want to share PLEASE let us know.


    Dedicate a song:

    My boyfriend brought to my attention a new singer by the name of Kina Grannis, she is very good and was “discovered” cause she wrote a song about Digg (the website) and put it on youtube, she was signed to a label but then dropped for some reason, she now is getting ready to release her new independent album. (I just got this information from a comment that Kina was signed to Interscope Records but decided to part ways with them because they had a different vision for her music then she had in mind.–Thanks for the info). Take a look at her song called “VALENTINE”:

    or you can check out her website at KinaGrannis.com . Kina’s song is written for Valentines Day, stating ‘will you be my Valentine’? It’s a great song and I think many of you will enjoy it. You can also download her new single on the link above.

    Happy Valentines!

    xo,
    kristin nicole

  • Thanksgiving Recipe’s & Ideas for 2009

    Another year is close to an end and we are only 3 days away from Thanksgiving 2009.

    Everyone has their own traditional Thanksgiving dinner. I want to know what you do for Thanksgiving?

    My family each bring a plate and someone in the family hosts the Thanksgiving dinner at their house, this person cooks the Turkey. This year my mom is taking the day off and we are doing Thanksgiving at my cousins house. So this year I was told to bring a green-bean casserole, wine and a fruit platter. TOLD? Yes TOLD, I didn’t get to choose, I left early when they decided this and so I was told to bring these things. Mind you, I like cooking but I don’t really eat green-bean casserole and I’ve never made it. So…. Wine, Check. Fruit platter, Check. Green-bean Casserole….hmmmm, my sister in law was so kind not to only give me coupons but a nice recipe to go with it. I hope it comes out good, does anyone have any other recipes they would like to share other then the Campbell Recipe? Well if you are interested here is the recipe:



    Ingredients:

    – 2 cabs (10 3/4 oz each) Campbell’s Condensed Cream of Mushroom Sup (regular or 98% Fat Free or Healthy Request)
    – 1 cup milk
    – 2 tsp. soy sauce
    – 1/4 tsp. ground black pepper
    – 8 cups cooked cut green beans
    – 1 can (6oz) French’s French Fried Onions (2 2/3 cups)

    Directions:
    1. Stir soup, milk, soy suace, black pepper, beans and 1 1/3 cups onion in 3-qt casserole.
    2. Bake at 350F for 25 min. or unit hot. Stir
    3. Top with remaining onions, Bake for 5 min. more

    And there you go, Green-bean casserole. Not that hard huh?!?

    Every year my brother, sister in law and group of friends do a Friends Thanksgiving the Friday after Thanksgiving. So this year I chose to bring a Baked Mashed Potato with Parmesan Cheese and Bread Crumbs, Thanks to Giada De Laurentiis (Everyday Italian from the Foodnetwork channel).

    Ingredients:
    – 1 tablespoon butter
    – 4 pounds russet potatoes, peeled, cut into 1-inch pieces
    – 1 cup whole milk
    – 1/2 cups grated mozzerella
    – 1 cup freshly grated parmesan
    – Salt and freshly ground black pepper
    – 2 tablespoons plain dry bread crumbs

    Directions:
    Preheat the oven to 400 degrees F. Coat a 13 by 9 by 2-inch baking dish with 1 tablespoon of butter and set aside.

    Cook the potatoes in a large pot of boiling salted water until they are very tender, about 15 minutes. Drain; return the potatoes to the same pot and mash well. Mix in the milk and melted butter. Mix i the mozzarella and 3/4 cup of Parmesan. Season, to taste with salt and pepper. Transfer the potatoes to the prepared baking dish. Stir the bread crumbs and remaining 1/4 cup of Parmesan in a small bowl to blend. Sprinkle the bread crumb mixture over the mashed potatoes. Recipe can be prepared up to this point 6 hours ahead of time; cover and chill.

    Bake, uncovered, until the topping is golden brown, about 20 minutes.

    Of course I will let you know how each dish comes out. Wish me luck.

    Other ideas are to decorate with pumpkins and turkeys. Colors are fall, so bring out the oranges, and browns. If you have small kids, cupcakes are always fun to make with the kids and you can use orange dye for the frosting.

    Have a wonderful Holiday and Please share your recipe’s and ideas with me.

    xo,
    kristin nicole

  • Dreams – Good or Bad?!?

    So many things come to mind when you think about dreams.

    Dreams

    Dream = A series of images, ideas, emotions, and sensations occurring involuntarily in the mind during certain stages of sleep.

    Have you ever had a dream so intense, so clear it just sticks with you forever? How many years has it been since you had that dream? Was it a good dream or a bad one?

    My Dream

    I had a dream when I was about 6 or 7 years old, that I will always remember. It started off that I was in the neighborhood I grew up in, it was dark and foggy (Yes here in Miami), and I was walking with one of my mom’s friends. We were looking for my mom and went up to the shopping center by my house and I found a dirty looking restroom, and inside their was a shower. The shower was running and the curtain was closed. I opened it and found my mom shot, and bleeding. I yelled for her to wake up and she told me to run, run as fast as I could home, and call for help. I ran out, trying to find my house when I bumped into my mom’s friend, I told her about my mom and she grabbed my arm, telling me I wasn’t going for help and that I would listen to whatever she told me to do. I struggled from her grip and ran around my neighborhood trying to find my home, crying and scared that mom was going to die. I then woke up in sweats, and crying for my mother. For some reason that dream as always stuck with me. A dream I’ll never forget.

    I have had a couple dreams that have stuck with me. Dreams I can visualize so vividly in my mind as if I had them last night. And yet these were dreams I had when I was a little girl. I have also had dreams much older that I also will never forget. Dreams that looked so real, and felt so real, and the next day have actually happened, just as I dreamed it would.

    Have you ever had a dream like this? If so please let me know so I can blog about it.

    “There are those who look at things the way they are, and ask why… I dream of things that never were, and ask why not?”
    ~Robert Francis Kennedy

    xo,
    kristin nicole

  • 1-Pound Miami Baby Beats the Odds

    The story:

    Baby Gabriella was born March 5 being premature at only 23 weeks and only weighting 1lb 1 oz, is one of the smallest surviving preemies at Jackson Memorial Hospital and they said she only had a 15% chance of surviving. She not only beat the odds but she survived a lung disease, multiple surgeries, and several infections. Her parents where always there cheering her on, singing to her and giving her hope to keep living.

    Gabriella’s parents mother Maruja and father Miguel where excited that after eight long months in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unite at Holtz Children’s hospital, they finally got to dress up their baby girl and take her home.

    Now Gabriella weighs 12 pounds. Doctors are astounded by her progress. She has to still take a little bit of oxygen and a few medications but Dr. Shahnaz Duara says she’s quite healthy.

    My thoughts:

    This is one of those stories that you can’t believe. A story and a miracle. This baby had very low chances of surviving, and this just proves that when your odds are low, have faith, because there is always a small chance that the door on the other end will open. This baby now has a chance to life thanks to all the doctors who helped her survive.

    This is the kind of the story that makes you sit back and appreciate life.

    xo,
    kristin nicole

    If you want to read more on about this story go to www.nbcmiami.com

  • I-Team: Danger On The Road – Last Years accident and the trauma

    This story is brought to you by cbs4.com Reporting: Michele Gillen

    The story

    It was 4:12 p.m. on a September day last year when the first call for help was placed to 911.

    “There are kids and the bus is engulfed in flames,” a distraught witness pleaded into the phone. “Please help!”

    At that very moment, a Marion County Sheriffs department helicopter was headed toward the scene of this horrific accident. Within minutes, a camera mounted on the helicopter captured the sight of an 18-wheeler that smashed dead on into the rear of a school bus crowded with children. Rescuers feared the columns of smoke spotted miles away, signaled death.

    At the moment of impact, Rhonda Arbuckle, a mother who had three children on the school bus was in her home, more than a half mile away. She looked at the living room clock knowing shortly she would head out to pick up her children from the bus stop. She froze as he heard an unusual sound.

    Arbuckle turned cold with fear. She had a premonition.

    “I hear a sound that goes, ‘Poof,’” she recalls standing in that very spot of her home. “I literally see in my mind’s eye, a semi come and hit the back of my school bus with my kids on the bus, and I see it burst into flames. And I see the flames shooting up in the air.” And then, she says she heard a message, “I heard two words scream in my head, “NO….GOOOOOO!!”

    At that, not even stopping to put on a shirt, Arbuckle jumped in her car and raced to her children’s bus stop turning to look down the road.

    “There it is. The semi, the truck the flames are shooting up into the air. I could hear children screaming,” an emotional Arbuckle reveals. On impact from the truck, the school bus was catapulted a football field away.

    According to police reports, the truck driver didn’t stop.

    Chaos ensued on the ground, as Arbuckle ran to the burning bus. More than a dozen children who made it off the bus are lining the road, some are visibly injured. She embraced her daughter Natalie who had made it out alive, but realized her other two children, and perhaps other children were still on the burning bus.

    “It’s an inferno,” Arbuckle explained to CBS4 Chief I-Team Investigator Michele Gillen. “If my kids could have gotten off the bus, they would be off the bus too.”

    While many looked on in horror, Arbuckle headed into the flaming bus, rescuing her injured son, Josh, and heading back in to find her youngest daughter JaSena.

    “When she turned and looked at me, her entire skull was open and I am looking into the skull of my daughter, and then she collapsed,” Arbuckle said.

    Having pulled her daughter to safety, she tried to go back in, to save another little girl, whose legs she had spotted under a seat. In tears, she explained to Gillen, “I am thinking I have got to get this little girl, as I turn back, that’s all I needed, one more trip down that aisle.”

    But just then the bus exploded and she couldn’t reach 13-year-old Francis Margay Schee who died from the flames and smoke. Her mother arrived on the scene praying her daughter had made it out alive and was in the rescue truck that passed her on the highway.

    On learning that Arbuckle tried but could not reach her child in time, Elissa Schee mournfully told Gillen, “I only wish God would have given her one more minute. It’s miraculous that more kids were not lost in this crash.”

    Mark Avera, the Arbuckle family attorney, has been investigating Florida deaths due to big rig accidents for years. He told Gillen, “It wasn’t a question of if someone was going to get hurt or killed, it was just when.”

    According to police reports, the truck driver, Reinaldo Andujar Gonzolez, had driven hours beyond what’s legally allowed, and “did not have sufficient rest.” He told police he had been on his cell phone right before he crashed into bus.

    The accident prompted the US Department of Transportation to review records of the freight company where the truck driver worked. Investigators say they found dozens of violations, including allowing drivers to drive more hours than the law allows, and allegations of falsified records. The company was ultimately fined $54,000. Fines for violations such as falsifying records or driving without sleep have not changed since the age of President Dwight Eisenhower. Criminal charges against the truck driver include vehicular homicide. He has pleaded not guilty.

    It is a case that opens a chilling window into the dangers all of us unknowingly face everyday on Florida highways — accidents involving Big Rigs. Florida ranks 3rd in the nation for deadly truck accidents and it’s a problem that can affect everyone on the road.

    And now, according to some past and former drivers, it’s a risk we need to be ever more worried about because of today’s troubled economy.

    “Michele, it is just a huge problem,” says Jane Mathis, the Florida volunteer coordinator for the Truck Safety Coalition and a board member of Parents Against Tired Truckers.

    “The average of 5,000 people a year are killed in big truck accidents every single year plus an average of over 100,000 are injured every single year that is basically the deaths are basically equivalent to losing 100 people in a major airplane crash every week of every month of every year,” Mathis details. “Do you not think if that was all over the front page of the newspaper, that the people in the United States would be up in arms over it? Of course, they would.”

    Mathis says it’s a deadly secret, the pain she knows too well, sharing a wedding picture of her son and his new bride with Gillen

    “Yes David and Mary Katherine, right,” Mathis begins to explain that they were just returning from a Florida honeymoon cruise and driving on I- 95, when their car, stopped in traffic, was rear ended by a truck that barreled into it at 60 miles per hour. It was suspected the truck driver had been asleep at the wheel. His son’s cars imploded on impact, he and his bride were burned to death.

    Mathis long fully ponders, “Who would have ever thought? I had wedding and funeral flowers at my house at the same time.”

    It’s taken a dozen surgeries and procedures to rebuild the face and skull of Rhonda Arbuckle’s youngest daughter, 12-year-old JaSenna. It is considered a miraculous recovery that never would have had a chance, had she not had a premonition and the courage to run into that burning bus.

    But in the memory of the child she couldn’t reach, she shares the tears of Margay Shee’s mother, who is left with an inconsolable loss and question.

    (You can read more on this story on the link above)

    My thoughts:

    It’s incredible to me how we have not tried sooner to stop these truck drivers from illegally going over the hour limits of what they are supposed to drive. This accident happened over a year ago, and still they are trying to make things better. One girl lost her life that day, and when I read this story I had to hold back my tears. I couldn’t imagine being the mother coming up to that scene, having my daughter taken away from me like that. I couldn’t be the mother who helped save those children, who had to see her own daughters skull open, and is still going through surgeries to make it better, a mother who couldn’t help another child but tried. This story is incredible, to know there are people out there who are willing to put their lives at risk to saving others (a civilian). It saddens me that these truck drivers care more about the money then their own lives or lives of others they are putting at risk while driving this way.

    I am always afraid of these truck drivers and this just proved that my fear is only right. When I read that Florida is 3rd in the nation for most deadly truck accidents, it just makes me sick. These are things that should have been enforced a long time ago. One can only hope that justice finally pulls through.

    xo,
    kristin nicole

  • I need a Vacation

    I need a vacation, and I needed it about yesterday. So I know what you’re thinking, didn’t she just go to Seattle in August. YES, YES I DID! And I absolutely loved it. I hope to one day just be able to travel to different cities. Get to know a new place, be away from home enjoying that alone time with my boyfriend and without a worry in mind, for a couple of days, it’s just US. Us and this Great big City we know nothing about.

    Live some place you’ve visited?

    My boyfriend loved Seattle so much he wants to move there, heh. I on the other hand did love it. I do love the West Coast. I lived in San Diego, California for 2 years and I absolutely loved it. I want to go there one of these days with my boyfriend, I think he’ll love it too. I honestly think I was made to be a West Coast Girl. Now the reason I can’t leave Miami, one word, Family. I’m close to them and although I can manage to live away from them, because I have, I now have 2 things or rather I say little people who I adore and love so much, my nephews. I couldn’t see myself leaving and not being in their lives as much. But that doesn’t stop me from my VACATIONS!

    I’m ready… are you?

    I don’t know if I just got the feel of a great vacation or that I’ve just been so stressed with work, school, and always having something to do after my day at work, but I feel like I need another vacation and soon. It’s hard though, because I have to arrange it with my school schedule and I have to have enough time off from work too. Other then that, oh yea I have to save money for it too, but that can be done. Don’t eat out for a while, just save and have a great vacation that follows. I think I can handle that.

    Where do I go next?

    So I’ve been to Seattle. I want to go to Vegas again but with my boyfriend whose never been, but that’s a vacation I would love to save to go with a bunch of our friends. San Diego, I want to go to also, but I want to do a whole week so we can go to LA, Napa Valley and San Fran….Chicago I’ve heard is beautiful and fun, that’ another City we sure want to visit.

    Any Ideas? Any thoughts, or locations you want to visit, let me know, leave a comment.

    xo,
    kristin nicole