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  • Advice Column: I’m cheating on my fiancé

    Advice Column: Cheating on my fiancé. Image found on flickr.com
    Advice Column: Cheating on my fiance. Image found on flickr.com

    Advice Column: I’m cheating on my fiancé

    I’m getting married in a weeks time, but I’m sleeping with someone else. I love my fiancé, he is the love of my life but I can’t let the other guy go and I don’t know what to do. Help.

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    My Response: 

    Dear Cheater;

    If you were truly in love and ready to get married you wouldn’t be cheating on your fiancé. You say he is the “love of your life”, but if this was true, then why are you sleeping with another man? You want your cake and you want to eat it too. Unfortunately that’s not how life works. How would you feel if your fiancé was sleeping with another woman? You have two choices to make, either leave this guy you are sleeping with or let your fiancé know the truth, let him move on, and stay with your lover.

    You can’t have the best of both worlds, eventually the truth will come out and it will all blow up in your face. Good luck.

    xo,

    kristin nicole

    I found this question on Yahoo.com

  • Advice Column: I’m not ready

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    Advice Column: I’m not ready

    I’m 14 and my boyfriend is 18, and he really wants to have sex with me but I want to wait until I’m older before I lose my virginity. The other day he said he will break up with me if I don’t let him have sex with me and I really love him and don’t want to break up. What should I do?

    My Response:

    Dear 14 year old;

    First and foremost you are really young to be thinking about having sex. Sex isn’t something that you just give away to anyone. If he really loves you, he would wait. You have a big age difference and sometimes that can be a challenge, but if you aren’t ready to lose your virginity do not allow him or anyone else give you an ultimatum. Go with your gut instinct and wait. If he breaks up with you because you won’t have sex with him then he doesn’t really love you. Like I said before, if he loves you he will wait, and if he doesn’t then you deserve someone better. It may hurt to lose him but it’s better to move on from someone who won’t respect your wishes than to give in and regret it later.

    xo

    kristin nicole

    I found this question on Yahoo.com

  • Advice Column: I told him I wanted to have sex, but…

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    Advice Column: I told him I wanted to have sex but… Photo found on flickr.com

    The Question: I told him I wanted to have sex but I’m not sure that I’m ready.

    What should I do? We started dating but we aren’t official yet. We sext [sic] and stuff but I told him I would have sex with him this weekend, but I kind of don’t want to because I want us to be something before we take that next step. What should I do? I’m scared he might get pissed off. I’m a virgin by the way and he isn’t; what do I do?

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    My Response:

    Dear Virgin;

    You should definitely be honest with him, especially if you are a virgin. If he really likes you and respects you then he will understand. Sure has a guy he wants to have sex, and he may be a bit disappointed but that’s okay. What is more important is that you don’t just go running into someones bed when you aren’t 100% ready for it. Losing your virginity is important, don’t rush into things. Even if you make things official, wait a little, make sure you guys are ready for that next step. Does he know you are a virgin? If he doesn’t, you should be honest with him. You don’t want to start a relationship where you are hiding things. Remember to always respect yourself and never do anything you aren’t ready for.

    xo,

    kristin nicole

    I found this question on Yahoo.com