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  • Why is BF texting another Girl?

    The Question:

    I Don’t Understand Why He Is Hiding This?
    Okay so me and my boyfriend had a huge fight over him not wanting to spend time with me and then he tells me that he’s texting another girl but they are just friends so we had another fight about that and him hiding stuff from me but surprisingly he’s not texting her because he likes her, he’s texting her to talk about us but he’s now lying to me about texting her even though it’s just about that (I texted the chick because I know who she is). I just don’t understand why he’s lying to me just about that. Any ideas?

    My Response:

    Dear Fighting;

    The fact that he is talking to someone else about your personal relationship is not good, let alone another girl. If you guys are having problems he needs to talk to you, not another girl. Just because he says he does not like this girl and he is only texting her to talk about your problems doesn’t mean he is telling the entire truth. Sometimes we seek out friends in comfort and later it can turn into something more. Talking to another girl about his relationship problems is only causing temptation where there shouldn’t be any. If you have questions, talk to your boyfriend, sit down with him and tell him how you feel. If you want things to work out, stop arguing and talk. Communication is key in any relationship.

    xo,
    kristin nicole

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  • Is my husband cheating ?

    The Question:

    I checked out our cell phone bill the other day, my husband and I share. He has multiple text messages from a co-workers # (female) back and forth for a couple of hours for several days. They texted on days and hours they are working, but when he is home or off they don’t text. Am I overreacting ? HELP ME…

    My Response:

    Dear Overreacting;

    If the texts are only coming in through out the day and working hours then it is probably work related. They don’t text after or on weekend so it probably isn’t a big deal. Unless you have proof of a certain text then don’t stress too much about it. If you feel that something may be going on then confront him and ask him why his co-workers text him so much. (But I wouldn’t make a big deal out of something that probably is nothing), I wouldn’t look too much into it, unless he’s doing other stuff to make you think that it may be more than just work related. Trust is a powerful thing in a relationship, so trust him and keep moving forward.

    xo,
    kristin nicole

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