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  • He is a virgin but I’m not…

    The Question:

    Dear Kristin Nicole;

    My boyfriend that I am with now is a virgin, I didn’t know this when we first started dating, because he seems so confident, I had assumed he wasn’t a virgin. He is 23 years old and I am 21, I have had more than one partner in my life and I am wondering if I am going to enjoy having sex with my boyfriend. I want someone who is going to know what to do, not someone I have to tell what to do. Is it wrong of me to think this way? Should I break up with him, or should I take his virginity?

    ~ Boyfriends a Virgin

    My Response:

    Dear Boyfriends a Virgin;

    You shouldn’t break up with your boyfriend just because he is a virgin, you obviously liked him enough to become his girlfriend. It may not be the same as the other men you have been with, but he might just surprise you. Try taking the dominant role and perhaps showing him exactly what you like will win over the rest in the end. Sometimes you can’t teach an old dog new tricks, but one that doesn’t know any better might be worth a little work. Have you tried doing other stuff with him? Perhaps having a little fun beforehand can loosen up the mood. If you really feel like you do not want to be with him, make sure before taking his virginity, although I’m sure he wouldn’t mind. Good luck

    xo,
    kristin nicole

  • I won’t Give Up – Jason Mraz

    I won't give up – image by: google.com/images

    I think this song is beautiful and Jason Mraz is a great singer and performer. Hope you like it….

    I won’t give up

    When I look into your eyes
    It’s like watching the night sky
    Or a beautiful sunrise
    There’s so much they hold
    And just like them old stars
    I see that you’ve come so far
    To be right where you are
    How old is your soul?

    I won’t give up on us
    Even if the skies get rough
    I’m giving you all my love
    I’m still looking up

    And when you’re needing your space
    To do some navigating
    I’ll be here patiently waiting
    To see what you find

    ‘Cause even the stars they burn
    Some even fall to the earth
    We’ve got a lot to learn
    God knows we’re worth it
    No, I won’t give up

    I don’t wanna be someone who walks away so easily
    I’m here to stay and make the difference that I can make
    Our differences they do a lot to teach us how to use
    The tools and gifts we got yeah, we got a lot at stake
    And in the end, you’re still my friend at least we did intend
    For us to work we didn’t break, we didn’t burn
    We had to learn how to bend without the world caving in
    I had to learn what I’ve got, and what I’m not
    And who I am

    I won’t give up on us
    Even if the skies get rough
    I’m giving you all my love
    I’m still looking up
    Still looking up.

    I won’t give up on us (no I’m not giving up)
    God knows I’m tough enough (I am tough, I am loved)
    We’ve got a lot to learn (we’re alive, we are loved)
    God knows we’re worth it (and we’re worth it)

    I won’t give up on us
    Even if the skies get rough
    I’m giving you all my love
    I’m still looking up

    You can see the video HERE

  • When I see you

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    When I see you

    When I see you
    I think of her
    Wondering if she’s happy
    Wondering what went wrong
    Why couldn’t I see she was the one?

    I tried to move on
    Pretend that I was happy
    But deep down I’ll never forget
    That in the hearts of all hearts I let the best of me go
    And when I think of her
    She’s all I’ll ever know.

    I moved forward with my life
    I have someone new
    And although a part of me loves her
    It will never be you.

    You were the one that knew me best
    The good with the bad
    But I was so stupid to think you would never leave
    I was stupid to think I had you
    That you would never run away
    But when I broke your heart
    You had no words to say

    I begged you to listen
    I begged you to speak
    But when I looked at you
    You were no longer weak.

    You were filled with anger
    But you didn’t shed a single tear
    Instead I was the one drowning out all my fears
    We sat there in silence and you looked in a daze
    When I tried to reach you
    You were nowhere in sight
    When I left that day
    It broke me in half
    Because I knew that it was over
    And you were never coming back.

    ©kristin nicole – 2012

  • i miss you

    i miss you

    I miss you
    i miss the way you looked at me
    the way you touched my hair
    i miss all the smiles
    even though i acted like i didn’t care
    i miss your hugs and our talks at night
    i miss your smell
    and everything that felt right
    i miss how you kissed me
    and i miss your touch
    i miss everything about you
    i miss how we fucked
    i miss your breath
    even when it smelled bad
    i miss our awkward moments
    in the shadows of the night
    i miss your giggle
    when everything felt right
    i miss that you’re gone
    that you’ll never be back
    i miss that i can’t control life
    and all the sucky things that come with that
    i miss the truths and dares
    and i miss playing ball
    i miss you everyday
    i get a call
    i miss your smell and the way you made me feel
    but most of all i miss your touch and wishing you were real.
    there is no other way to feel
    why do i miss something that wasn’t real?

    ©kristin nicole – 2012

    This poem was written for a friend, she told me how she felt about a lost love, and I put it into words for her. Enjoy.

  • Will you love me?

    Will you love me – Photo by: kristin nicole

    Will you love me forever and ever and ever?
    Or is forever way too long?
    Will you kiss my lips so tender
    or will it be strong?

    Will you show me your heart
    or let it fall apart?
    Will you hug me and hold me
    or let me go and unfold me?

    Will you shower me with love
    or will my tears fall down?
    Will you tell me how you feel
    or hide away all your fears?

    Will you show me the light
    or cower in the dark?
    Will you make love to me
    or fuck me?

    Will you catch me when I fall
    or will you let me drop?
    Will you love me forever and ever
    or will you say never?

    © Written by: kristin nicole ~ May 2012

  • Hello and Goodbye

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    I found a picture on line that had a great verse about hello and goodbye, I thought I would put together a poem. Tell me what you think.

    Hello and Goodbye

    Hello to the new me
    Goodbye to what you made me be
    Hello to my new life
    Without you by my side

    Hello to freedom
    Goodbye to the tie down
    Hello starting over
    Where have you been?
    Goodbye person I once knew within.

    Hello and Goodbye
    To what I once knew
    Hello new beginnings
    Goodbye now I’m through

    Hello’s give you hope
    Goodbyes kill your dreams
    It’s never easy finding the in between.
    Once I say goodbye
    Forget who I am
    Forget that I knew you
    Forget that I ever believed in you
    My hello was lived short
    But my goodbye will live forever

    Hello new life
    Goodbye the tears that came at night
    Hello hope
    Goodbye old life.

    © Written by: kristin nicole May 2012

  • Nothings Forever

    Nothings Forever. Photo by: google.com/images

    Nothings forever
    I’ve learned that from the past
    When I met him, I thought our love would last
    Then he broke my heart in two, left me wondering what i did wrong,
    made me move on.
    Nothings forever
    I’ve learned that from the past
    When I met him, I thought our love would last
    He lied, he cheated, he broke me to pieces
    I had to move on, I had to get out
    I couldn’t believe I fell for his lies
    and in the end it was only his demise.
    Nothings forever
    I’ve learned that from the past
    in the end of any heartache
    you learn to move on
    you learn nothings forever
    you learn that in the end everything will be okay
    and when you learn to walk away
    there is nothing left to say.

    © Written by: kristin nicole – May 2012

  • My boyfriend cheated on me, should I stay?

    Stay or Go – Picture by: Google.com/images

    The Question:

    Dear kristin nicole;

    My boyfriend cheated on me and I don’t know if to stay with him or leave him. He say’s he is sorry and it will never happen again, but I don’t know if to trust him anymore.

    My Response:

    Dear cheated on;

    You shouldn’t stay in a relationship where the man does not respect you. A person who cheats on another person does not respect them or care enough to stop what they are doing before doing it. At the end of the day you have to ask yourself, if he is worth sticking around with, or if there is someone else out there who won’t hurt you the way he just did? Be strong, and remember that there is always better, and no person should have to be in a relationship where there is no trust. Trust is key to any relationship.

    xo,
    kristin nicole

  • Broken in Two

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    I had someone write to me once about their relationship, how it ended and how it began, and she wanted me to write a poem that described her relationship. SO…. Here it is, let me know what you think….

    Broken in Two

    I loved you with words unsaid
    I loved you until you cheated in my bed
    I loved you for all the wrong reasons
    I loved you for all the right feelings
    I loved you for what you didn’t say
    for all the lies you made

    You looked at me with truth
    I didn’t see the real you
    You were a liar and a fake
    you cheated on me and that was your biggest mistake

    I tried to forgive you
    I tried to ignore the truth
    I was blinded by an image that wasn’t me and you

    you took my heart
    you played it like a string on a guitar
    you said you loved me
    but the truth was you only loved yourself

    you lied to yourself
    made everything bigger than it was
    pretended to be happy
    lost without a doubt

    one day the light turned on
    and you knew you couldn’t pretend anymore
    you fought it but you had to say it out loud
    our relationship was a blur
    as if it was never true
    i wish it weren’t because it would have been easier to forget you.

    When i moved on
    you wanted me back
    it was too late
    you have to face the facts,
    you fucked up
    and there’s no turning back.

    now i see you and you pretend to be happy
    but i know you
    you never changed
    you can put on an act
    pretend to be happy
    pretend nothing in the world will break you
    but we both know the truth
    you’re broken in two

    the person i once knew
    and the new you
    you can put on a smile
    you can move forward in life
    but deep down inside you’ll never be you
    you will always be the broken man i once knew.

    xo,
    kristin nicole

    © 2012 kristin nicole

  • You’re NOT the one (Her thoughts)

    This is an old poem (Repost). Enjoy

    PART 2 – You’re NOT the One (Her thoughts)……

    You thought you stopped loving me?
    You thought you didn’t care?
    How could you be so selfish to just sit back and stare?
    I looked into your eyes as my eyes filled up with tears,
    You stood there standing watching me drown out my fears.

    You pretended to be happy.
    You put on an act,
    You thought I couldn’t see the truth,
    You had to face the facts.

    You put up a wall; you pushed me to the floor
    I did all I could do
    I even gave you my door.
    Then one day I woke up and realized this is it.
    I didn’t want to be with you, my fate was sealed with out your kiss.

    CHORUS:
    Now you’re the one crying inside
    You’re the one that can’t let go
    You’re the one wishing for me to come back
    Wishing once again I’d be at your door.

    You pushed me way to far.
    I walked right out the door.
    I told you I loved you but I couldn’t take the pain no more.
    I asked you if you loved me.
    I gave you one last chance.
    All you did was look at me, you failed my last request.

    With silence in your eyes, you stood in disbelief.
    You didn’t say a single word, you didn’t share a peep.
    If you would have listened closely,
    You can hear my every word,
    You can hear the tears fall down
    And my heart break in a million burns.

    You didn’t think I’d leave you,
    You thought I’d always be around
    You thought you had me.
    You stood your ground.

    Well you thought wrong…
    You let me walk away
    You lost me that day.
    Now you’re left with nothing to say.

    CHORUS x 2

    xo,
    kristin nicole

    © written by: kristin nicole